What are common mistakes made by college students?

Answer by Ben Y. Zhao on Quora.

Obviously, a question of this type has many valid answers. Here are a couple that come to mind in terms of importance and prevalence:

A weak variant of the “imposter syndrome”
In today’s social media driven world, students often see the “best side” of all of their friends lives, not just in academic performance, but also in fun activities, general happiness, etc. Students at top schools see all their friends seemingly doing great at everything, which in turn makes them doubt their own ability and whether they were an “admissions mistake.”

People tend to give overly positive impressions of how they’re doing to their friends/acquaintances, both online and offline. Your classmate sitting next to you might inflate the numbers a bit when he tells you about his midterm results, and your roommate might cover up a bad breakup with a cover story. All this serves to challenge self-esteem and produce personal feelings of insecurity by students, and can have obvious and serious consequences.

Sense of entitlement
On the other end of the spectrum lies students who have a distorted and highly personalized view of college. They, perhaps because of their prior successes, assume that college is an experience meant to serve them, perhaps as a reward for their successes up to this point. Some have grown up in an environment where they have always been the center of attention, and have never experience real failure. These students often have highly personalized views of what classes should be. If they do not perform well, the response is always to shift the responsibility elsewhere: Why did the exam ask such obscure questions? Or Why isn’t this project assignment more explicit in its instructions? These students often think that the onus is on the university to “educate” them, and don’t understand the concept of “learning” as a proactive activity.

Thinking of faculty as “unapproachable”
As a professor, I really enjoy engaging with students in a one-on-one fashion after class or in office hours. Yet I often find that many students come in with a preconceived notion that professors want to have nothing to do with them. Some see faculty as “too busy to bother,” while others see faculty as aloof or anti-social. They’re afraid to come in to office hours, and often hold back questions in class for fear of being rebuked or ignored. There are numerous opportunities available at a university that do not present themselves in an obvious way, but require some initiative from the student. Whether it’s after-class discussions with faculty on a topic related to class, undergraduate research positions, or other part time jobs, students should be more proactive in asking for what they want. Unfortunately, this tends to affect a disproportionally high portion of female students.

Poor time management
This is a common problem that goes way beyond college students, but it’s where it may have the greatest impact. Even the best and most well prepared college students tend to underestimate the workload that comes with a rigorous academic schedule. This is especially true for some of the brightest students, who have often succeeded without good time management skills, because they could rely on their natural ability to get work done quickly. Yet inevitably, they’ll take classes whose workload demand good time management over a semester or quarter, and procrastination will be their downfall.

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