Your tips for working from home…with kids

Good morning, Broadsheet readers! The Wing’s feminist mission reportedly did not always translate to its workers, the prime minister of Norway answers kids’ questions about coronavirus, and you shared your tips for working from home with kids around. Have a nice Wednesday.

– WFH/child care tips. The Wall Street Journal has declared a new normal: “working from home with kids underfoot.”

So, how’s your new normal going?

We asked you all on Monday to weigh in on the unprecedented experiment currently under way, in which work-from-home directives and school closures have isolated families together amid the coronavirus spread. Many of you responded, to offer tips or just to commiserate about the challenges posed by the situation.

As for the tips, scheduling, many of you said, is key:

E.G. Says her family has tried to “automate” as much as possible by coming up with a structured day. “I’ve even mapped out all of my soon-to-be 5-year-old’s snacks each day and am packing his lunch at night. Anything to eliminate decision making during the day so my brain can focus as much as possible on work.”

The outbreak has prompted lots of offers of help, but it’s important to remember that it’s O.K. To ask for help too, even if it’s not in-person.

“Don’t underestimate the power of virtual babysitting via Facetime,” says R.S. “My parents have kept my little ones (4 and 2) entertained for half-hour stretches with my phone or iPad set up on a stand, and they just shout my name very loudly if anything crazy happens.”

And who among us could not use nifty life-hacks right now:

“Consider deputizing your kids as your official interns and giving them work. If you have a home computer, get them to open up an excel sheet or PowerPoint and let them play around. My daughter loves being ‘in office’ with me at home,” says B.D.

“I put up a sign on the back of my laptop that lets [my elementary school-age kids] know when I am on video [calls] so they know not to bother me,” writes D.O. “It works most of the time.”

These arrangements may lead to fun work-arounds and impressive parenting wins, but it all remains incredibly hard.

“As a startup founder, we are seriously impacted with our fundraising and no investor meetings,” says S.K.

Another Broadsheet reader admitted to having “underlying resentment” about being “the default one to take care of the baby.”

“I’m already burned out in general in trying to continue to expand my business,” she said, “and this whole virus is slowly taking our lives hostage.”

Indeed, nothing about this is easy, though the sudden togetherness may also present unexpected opportunities.

“My cousin in Hong Kong shared that over the six weeks of family isolation they grew closer, but there were moments of hysteria, tears, and frustration. So I guess my view is BRING IT ON! BRING IT ON!,” says L.Y.

A.B. Says she’s trying to embrace that she’s now home with her 7-month-old. “[T]his will be the most uninterrupted time I’ve had with her since my maternity leave and I’m looking forward to watching her grow and develop (and maybe start to really crawl).”

No doubt we’re all flying blind through this once-in-a-generation moment. What we do have is each other and this platform, so the Broadsheet is committed to sharing advice on how to navigate.

Up next is a topic alluded to above: stress. As the pandemic continues to upend daily life, how are you coping with the stress that’s accompanying it? What outlets are best for relief? What tactics have you employed to keep it in check? Send us your best practices—to [email protected]—and we may feature them in a future Broadsheet.

Be well,

Claire Zillman
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@clairezillman

Today’s Broadsheet was produced by Emma Hinchliffe.

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